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Silencing Your Inner Critic

Posted on January 17, 2014 at 4:10 PM




Could there be anything worse for a writer than staring in frustration at a blank screen or piece paper because the words just won’t pour forth from head to fingers? How about suffering from the dreaded writer’s block while writing an advice piece on the subject? That’s exactly what I am going through right now.


There is so much good advice out there. Everything that could be said about this subject has already been said. What more could I possibly bring to the table?


Many writers feel this way about their writing. As writers, we fall victim to editing ourselves before we even sit down to write. We fear that we have nothing new to say, our ideas aren’t good enough and/or we fear the rejection we may have to face. So, we discount the ideas swimming around in our brains instead of allowing them to float freely to the page.


The biggest reason we writers suffer from writers block comes from a built-in censor we have been habitually developing throughout most of our adult lives. School taught us to over-analyze everything in order to get a good grade. We desperately wanted to get that good grade and if it wasn’t absolutely perfect, inside we felt like we failed. We approach our writing sometimes too seriously, making it a matter of life or death. It’s time we bring the simple joy of play back to our creative endeavors.


It’s time for us writers to revisit our childhood once again. Do you remember what it was like when you threw yourself into every idea that popped into your head with complete abandon? Before were taught to question everything to make sure it was a wise decision?


You just jumped right in, without any care to the consequences of what happened. There was a fearlessness present that somehow got lost along the way. It’s high time we reclaim that simple pleasure once again.


We writers shackle ourselves with so many rules and expectations. We have ideas about what a perfect piece of writing looks like and how many words we should be writing every day. There are so many voices telling us what a writer looks like and if we at any time think we are not fitting the mold, we start to break out into a sweat-induced panic.


But the truth is, there are no hard and fast rules, only opinion. Writing is an art form, and creativity was not meant to be self-contained. You need to believe in yourself as a creator. Only you can deliver the masterpiece sitting inside your skull. The work is already done. You need only to let it flow out of you.


Here’s a simple exercise you can do to help you with your artisanal flow:


The next time you sit down at your computer or at your desk with pan and paper in hand and start to feel paralyzed, try this. Write down everything that pops into your head, no matter what it is. I mean EVERYTHING. From your article/blog post/book idea to the chores you need to get done later to your irritation about distractions. Let everything flow without questioning what you are writing down. Don’t stop until you are physically unable to continue or until there are no further thoughts to write down.

 

And even if you do start to question it, write those feelings down, too. Write down how stupid you think this exercise is, how you hate having writer’s block, and any other feelings you have at the moment. Get everything out. Even if the thought is, “I don’t have anything to say.”


The purpose of this exercise is to train yourself to develop the habit of putting your inner editor in its proper place. Editing should come after the words have been placed on the page, not before. Let go of all judgments and preconceived notions of what you’re writing should look like. You will be able to mold the clay into whatever form you would like later. Right now, you just need to get the clay.


Do this exercise a few minutes each day or as a warm-up prior to you beginning your writing work for the day. And if your inner editor tries to chime in, treat it like an annoying phone call during dinner. Let the answering machine get it.


“I’m sorry, but the writer you are trying to reach is currently unavailable at the moment. Please try your call again later.”


All it takes to be a writer is to write. That’s it. Believe in the gift you have been given as a creator. Now, go tell the inner voices in your head to be quiet; you’ve got some writing to do.

 

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69 Comments

Reply Renew Your Space
1:57 PM on January 29, 2014 
Great idea! Whenever I get writer's block, I visit some of my "muses" who write in a similar niche. I always get re-inspired eventually... ~Renee
Reply sarah arrow
4:21 AM on February 19, 2014 
I love the idea that believing in our abilities will help us get over our block. I'll give it a go the next time I get stuck.
Reply Lisa D.B. Taylor
1:09 PM on February 19, 2014 
So true, and wonderful ideas.
Whenever I feel stuck I reread what I've written. from days or even years past. Seeing that I've done it before makes me believe I can again!
Reply Angie Astry
4:10 PM on February 19, 2014 
This is perfect!! Thank you for the great ideas!
Reply Margarita
4:37 PM on February 19, 2014 
When I get writer's block I just step away from it all and take a break. A walk, a coffee, some perspective and my juices get flowing :)
Reply Debbie Williams
6:02 PM on February 19, 2014 
What a wonderful and timely post! I think I am guilty of this and really appreciate your advice. Keep up the good work!
Reply Marysia @ My Travel Affairs
6:02 PM on February 19, 2014 
I love this piece of advice! I have actually already changed my auto replay and voice mail! I really need some piece sometime to write, I get to distracted those days!
Reply LIsa
9:43 PM on February 19, 2014 
Great reminder. I, too, struggle with hearing the inner critic and get stuck over-thinking my writing. Sometimes it is nice to know others struggle with it too.
Reply Dawn @ Reveal Natural Health
10:34 PM on February 19, 2014 
What great advice! I am going to try this. As a blogger and freelance writer it is so frustrating (and very inconvenient) to deal with writer's block.
Reply erica
1:27 AM on February 20, 2014 
What a great exercise. I'm going to try that on my next writing day!
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Reply andrea k @ www.allofhisgrace.com
10:08 AM on February 20, 2014 
I like the idea of sitting down and just dumping my words out onto paper...even if they're not relevant to what I'm working on. Thank you for this encouraging post. I really enjoyed it.
Reply Becky
10:10 AM on February 20, 2014 
This is so true! When I started blogging, I felt like any information in my brain had already been said by someone else. But that doesn't mean I can't share my own individual thoughts or opinions about that topic.
Reply Brittany
10:24 AM on February 20, 2014 
I like the point you are trying to make, I think there needs to be a balance though. If we rush into everything without stopping to think of the consequences, we will experience the consequences. Instead, we should weigh our decisions carefully, but not let the fear of failure paralyze us.
Reply Cindy @MomMaven
2:28 PM on February 20, 2014 
I agree, brain-dumping always helps loosen up my mind and helps things flow.
Reply Tanya @ sevenspringshomestead.com
9:50 PM on February 20, 2014 
Thanks for sharing. I think we have all hit that point where we just can't write. I love the idea of just jotting down whatever comes to mind, eventually what really wants to come out will.
Reply Quarter Life Cents
10:40 PM on February 20, 2014 
Great article. This is something I struggle with after 7 years of university. I find it incredibly difficult to write how I feel. Even when I do manage to get it out all out, I am continually trying to figure out of I can word things differently or if it is grammatically correct. I find lyric-less music helps me zone out and get into a better writing place mentally.

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Reply adri@dreambookdesign
11:11 PM on February 20, 2014 
writers block is the worst!! thanks for the tips.
Reply Lisa
11:52 AM on February 21, 2014 
Thank you for the encouragement! I definitely have an inner critic with me when I write. I often find that if I just get the ideas down on paper (or typed), let it be then revisit it a day or two later, it is usually some pretty good stuff! All it takes is a little bit of cleaning up and tweaking to get it the way I'd like. After reading this post, I'm going to do an even better job of just getting ALL of my thoughts out when I sit down to write. Thank you!
Reply Abby
12:32 PM on February 21, 2014 
This is a really great post. Thank you for sharing. So often I do exactly what you are talking about and I begin editing myself before I even get any words on the page, thinking it has to be perfect. But that's not what writing is about. Discovery comes as the words flow. I'm going to try this exercise.
Reply Jessica
1:05 PM on February 21, 2014 
"Editing should come after the words have been placed on the page, not before." I love it. Whenever I get writers block I just start writing, "hello, my name is... I see a brown coffee cup and a purple cat..." and other nonsense and go from there.